Monday, April 2, 2007

Homebound?

Honey went to school today (after a long, anxious night) and ended up in the counselors office after her first class.
Though I hadn't spoke about it with Honey, I had decided that today (Monday) and Tuesday would be the "test". She has been home more than in school the past several weeks. When she is in school, it sounds like her whole day is a turmoil of emotions- I have to wonder if she is learning anything anyhow? and I have to wonder how healthy it is for her to try to face her "demon" without the tools to cope successfully? Since she spent most of yesterday worrying about school, got little or no quality sleep (up worrying) and made it through only 90 minutes of school, I think she will learn more and I think she will be better able to heal here at home. She will return to school... I dont know when, but I know she will learn some coping techniques and I know she will conquer this situation in time.
We have an appointment with someone who deals with PTSD and rape trauma in April (we had an appointment in mid-June- that was as early as we could get in... but I have called and left messages a couple times with her (let her know Honey really needed to get in asap) and the next time I called we got bumped up... so a couple weeks.
Now, I am just waiting for Honey's PCP to fax an okay/request to school for homebound status until the end of the current school year. We can always change it, if Honey feels she wants to go back sooner. She will also request that Honey be allowed to continue with extra curricular activities as tolerated. Honey's counselor is in the process of locating a homebound teacher. She is still pretty worked up from today, but I think once she relaxes, she will feel much less stress with the idea that she does not have to return to school until she is ready.

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